Moving around the different states in America means you must brace yourself for all kinds of people and experiences. Not all states are friendly and super welcoming. In fact, some can feel downright mean and arrogant, which can make exploring or moving into the region more difficult than you can think. But it’s not just the lack of manners that makes a state feel unfriendly. It’s also about the overall culture, pace of life, and how communities interact with outsiders.
We’re ranking the states where a warm welcome is harder to find. If you’ve ever felt like an outsider somewhere, chances are it’s on this list.
Montana

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The first thing you will notice about Montana is its distant social circles. Locals may be a little reliable if you need directions, but becoming a part of their established communities can take time. People here value independence and prefer their tight small networks.
Alaska

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The lifestyle in Alaska is all about solitude, and that’s exactly how the residents live. Harsh winters and remote locations further add to it and make socializing less of a priority. While you can count on your neighbors in emergencies, they would rarely go beyond that.
Connecticut

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While we can’t say that Connecticut is outwardly unfriendly, it isn’t particularly warm either. Many residents, especially in posh areas, stick to their well-established social circles. Newcomers often find it tough to integrate. Don’t expect to be showered with enthusiasm in Connecticut.
Arizona

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Arizona is a popular choice for retirees. However, finding instant connections in this region can be tough. Many communities and social groups can feel exclusive and tough to break into. Establishing deeper friendships takes effort, even though service workers and businesses are generally welcoming.
Rhode Island

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Rhode Island isn’t the easiest place to make new friends, especially considering a population that’s lived here for generations. And don’t misunderstand their reserved behavior. They aren’t really rude, just deeply rooted in their existing communities.
California

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This region doesn’t feel welcoming and friendly despite flaunting so much diversity. In fact, the social scene here leans more toward independence than inviting. The major cities in California are filled with transient residents, and the overall cost of living keeps people focused on work and personal success.
Florida

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Florida experiences millions of newcomers and tourists all year round. Naturally, this state feels like a place where no one stays long enough to build strong connections. Especially in Miami, people can be more cautious about connecting with newcomers.
Nevada

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Nevada sounds like a place where people have a lot of fun – thanks to all the tourism and casinos – but the reality is that many interactions and friendships that develop here are only short-lived. This is especially true for Las Vegas, where people don’t even remember who they met last night.
New Hampshire

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The residents in this part of the United States are quite private. And it’s very easy for people to read this attitude as being unfriendly and rude. The state’s “live free or die” mindset fosters a culture where people keep to themselves, and it’s quite common to have polite but distant relationships with neighbors.
Washington

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Washington’s social scene is not harsh, yet they prefer keeping strangers at a distance. This is particularly experienced in Seattle, where locals will acknowledge you but rarely go beyond surface-level interactions. If you move here, don’t take it personally if you’re being ignored around their existing circles.
Massachusetts

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If you’re expecting Southern-style hospitality in Massachusetts, especially in Boston, you might be caught off guard by the no-nonsense attitude. People here are more direct and efficient. You’d hardly find anyone who’d share a warm smile without a reason. Locals don’t linger for conversations but may offer help when needed.
New Jersey

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Don’t expect an easy entry in New Jersey. Let’s just say the social style of this state is quick and to the point. People aren’t interested in pleasantries when there’s traffic to fight and things to do. The sarcasm and fast-talking can be intimidating for newcomers.
Delaware

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It’s because of how small this state is that people prefer sticking to their tight-knit communities. People tend to hang out with their own groups, and social invitations aren’t handed out freely. The state also has one of the highest road rage rankings.
Arkansas

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Despite being in the South, Arkansas doesn’t always deliver hospitality. If you’re lucky, you may come across some welcoming communities, but others can feel closed off to outsiders. Social interactions can be reserved, and the state ranks high for aggressive driving, which further adds a layer of tension to daily life.
New York

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While many would say New Yorkers are outright mean, we believe they’re more busy. The fast-paced culture appreciates efficiency over pleasantries. Don’t expect people to stop by and indulge in a casual conversation. In places like New York City, eye contact is optional, and deep conversations with strangers are rare.